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"She just wasn't interested in anything I was into."
Yes, I agree, very important. Couples must give and take, equally. All of us, male or female, need attention.
We, my husband and me, have always been a team more than husband and wife, even since children. This team effort has helped us to move ahead in life and has helped us to stay very close.
We have a very healthy relationship, very giving and understanding relationship. Jealousy and envy, we never suffer.
When Grandma died, Grandpa said, "I have lost the best friend I ever had." Six months later he died of a broken heart, quite literally; he lost his reason to live.
This is what we enjoy; friends first, lovers next.
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you can't be selfish and have successful relationships imho. the more you give the better the relationship gets. before i do it, going to cheerleaders practice with my 6 y.o. daughter may not be what i think i want to do, but after watching her laughing, running, and playing, i realize that it was a great choice for both of us. but there is a time that i need to be left alone with the cars, too !
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"...but after watching her laughing, running, and playing...."
Oh yes! Our daughter really makes a difference in our lives. Long ago, we focused on the two of us, focused on getting ahead. Then the little sh!t came along which changed our focus to her.
We give less attention to ourselves and focus our team effort on her. She is like a mediator for any differences we have. Ours is a life of responsibility to her because we brought her into this world, without her permission.
We are charged to look after her. Since she came along, we are second in importance which helps us set aside differences so we will not shirk our responsibilities to our daughter.
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she loves to swim too so i get plenty of exercise! i try and do things with her and for her which my parents didn't do with me. maintaining good relationships with your children should be job 1. i would rather be around the kids than the adults a lot of the time cuz the kids are a lot more fun.
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Wake up, boys, it is morning and the markets are to open shortly! Jeezz.. those boys have been sitting here all night staring at their monitors, all glassy eyed, just waiting for another nekkid picture of me.
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About twenty years or so back, actually more but I do not want anyone to know how old am I really, my husband and I are driving "the truck" into Las Vegas coming up north from Texas. We are really flying along across the desert, doing at least forty-five or fifty miles per hour.
We are just about out of money, not sure we can make it to California, to where we are headed to look for work, least not pay for gas and eat. Sleeping in the back of the truck, nothing to that; been sleeping back there for days.
Rolling into Vegas, plan is my husband will play some poker and win us a few hundred to get us out to California. He is a darn good poker player as are all Okies and Texans.
We pull into a gas station parking lot on the edge of downtown Vegas, way in back by a shade tree, figuring nobody would notice us sleeping in the bed of our old Chevy truck. He spruces up a little, I clean up a little, but both of us disgusted by gas station restrooms; so dirty and those dark finger printed condom machines.
He tells me, "Wait in the truck" and, of course, I do not. Billyray is off to play some poker.
Wandering around Vegas, I spot a sleazy topless joint on a side street. Look up at the topless billboard, look down at my boobs, look up at topless billboard, an idea comes to me!
Rushing back to our no tell motel truck, I have a great plan to earn some money! Pulling out an old pair of jeans, an old T-shirt and my only pair of scissors, I go to work making myself a very skimpy outfit; lots of butt cheek hanging out and breasts bottoms showing.
Back at the two bit topless joint, I'll be darned if I am not hired, right on the spot. Long sordid story and I will only allude to my being a good dancer and knowing how to jiggle and work an audience of dirty old men with lots of cash.
That night, my loving husband wins one-hundred and twenty dollars playing poker. I never tell him about my five-hundred dollars in tips I earn. Still have not told him to this very day.
Next morning, after sink showering in a filthy men's restroom at that gas station, we are back headed to California, richer than my husband ever knew! Heck, I thought us so rich I bought us a quarter's worth of rubbers out of that old greasy dirty gas station condom machine.
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Many years later, our daughter is about sixteen or seventeen, and we are back in Vegas for auto auction.
Be sure to note, E440 and smurf boy, our daughter is underage. Once read, you can report me to the FBI for interstate transportation of a minor for acts of lewd public behavior. I have an arrest record for just such, so the FBI will listen.
My daughter and I are walking old downtown Vegas, clothes shopping and such. Old Vegas is the best, the most entertaining, cheapest food. Do not bother visiting the newer parts of Vegas.
We are walking along and I spot a topless joint. Deja Vu. I am telling our girl about how we earned some money, decades back, so we could make it out to California, only for me to become knocked up in the back seat of a borrowed '63 Chevy Impala. We had used up that pack of three rubbers from the Vegas gas station.
"Traci, tonight, you and I, lets go to this topless joint and sign up. Bet you I could earn at least five c-notes and you, so young and beautiful, you would earn at least a thousand dollars!"
She becomes pissed off, starts walking thirty feet behind me like we are not related.
Check out the boy with skinny legs and black polished dress shoes! If he ain't an easy mark, I have never seen one! Gullible written all over his face.
Unknown to me, our girl is still back there, behind me, taking pictures so she can rat on me later, to her father.
Topless joint and a boy giving away free spins on a ten-thousand dollar slot machine! Boy Howdy, I cannot pass up a chance for a con game!
So I lose my soda pop and approach this geek. However, I do not let loose of my bag of new clothes, no way, some jerk would grab my bag then run off.
I tell him I am the famous topless dancer, Cara, from next door, "Listen, if you will give me ten free spins, you come over next door, around eight tonight and I will come out into audience, right to you then perform for you, personally, right there in your seat. I will even rub my breasts in your face, a lot!" I lift my T-shirt and jiggle my D-cups for him.
He grins and hands me a big wad of free spins, a lot more than ten free spins!
Suddenly, the geek boy mark backs up, then is pleading with me to leave, to go away. I am looking at my free spins, all excited, not paying attention.
Walking up behind me, a bouncer who saw me lift my T-shirt and jiggle. The blue arrow boy is still staring at my tits. My daughter is so shocked, which she should not be knowing how I am, forgets to take pictures but then starts up again; great evidence to have me grounded for at least a week!
I am looking at my free spins, "This is it, the big one! Finally reward for degrading myself twenty years back to earn money to get us out to California. Thank you, Coyote!"
Slight problem, the girl at the slot machine tells me I can only have one free spin, not a big handful of spins. Well darn, jiggling my boobs at her probably will not work. I am just about to con her with, "Be quiet and later I will return to give you a thousand dollars from my winnings...."
About this time, the bouncer grabs my arm from behind. He is all pissed off.
Look on your left, red arrow, damn geek boy mark is pointing at me, rats me out, tells the bouncer I grabbed a bunch of free spins from his hand!
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was in vegas week before christmas last year. great weather, lots of action, had a great time. will stay at Luxor next time. i bet you guys will be some of the few that everyone remembers. please excuse the spelling as i stayed up all night waiting for some pix. j/k ! have a great day today.
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Your all night wait shall be rewarded, eventually...
This bouncer is chewing me out, threatening to have me arrested. He is so mad, I know he has no interest in seeing "Cara the topless dancer" later tonight.
Oh shoot, I have to think fast and come up with a con that will work on a huge fat boy with nothing but fat between his ears!
Coyote, dear Coyote, bites my butt good with a real surprise.
Our underage daughter, having been raised by tall tale telling Okies and a con artist mother, runs up, acting all in a panic, "Mom! Mom! Dad has been in a car accident. He is hurt. He is in an ambulance, you must come right now."
Ha!
The bouncer shrugs and off the two of us run!
Our daughter blackmailed me into allowing her to drive my Corvette to school for one month.
She is a smart and a shrewd girl, takes after her loving mother!
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know what you mean for sure there. FHAL and PGPU doing pretty good today. dusty shouldn't get on my case too bad today cuz he made $$$ on FHAL yesterday.
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i really tried to stay away from the bouncers. great shoes and drinks. i had a lot of trouble getting back on the plane. all in all came out about even for the trip.
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