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Male and female differences are often attributed to culture/learning, even by many experts, when the innate (genetic/physiological) basis of such differences is overlooked.
Men and women differ physically as well as psychologically on an innate basis. They think differently on a innate basis, for instance.
Women are more verbal, talk more for instance, and men are more non-verbal in processing better in a visual-spatial-perceptual mode. Women are focused more on family and social relationships, men on the external world of business, science, and poliitcs.
These differences are innate, and our culture reflects as much, or more, than causes them. In other words culture is an expression of such innate differences to at least the extent that culture causes the learning of such differences.
Men are more assertive sexually and more promiscuous, than women. Their sexual focus is on seduction. Women are more inhibited sexually, and their sexual focus is on reproduction. These differences are innately based.
As a result, when an adult female like a teacher seduces a 13 year old (or older) boy, it is generally positive for the boy (assuming he is not homosexual) - more so than when an adult male seduces a 13 year old female. In fact young females can suffer trauma from such seduction, but this is most unlikely in young males.
The law strives to treat sexes the same even though the sexes are different, and on an inborn basis.
It is stupid for us to punish for a victimless crime of any sort.
Most 13 year old or older boys would love to have sex with an attractive older female, and would suffer no negative effects from this.
However, one could argue that a young boy, with underdeveloped emotional control characteristic of youth, could develop an overly strong emotional attachment to the adult female, and this attachment could cause problems. That is the danger of good sex at any age - you are in danger of falling in love - but this is more of a danger when you are a teen.
That is why I only have sex with myself, at least until I become older. LOL
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quote:Originally posted by BuyTex: lol, what're y'all up to? "auto-sexual"--that jus means doin it in car, right? Art, what are you rambling about?
Autosexual meaning by youself without assistance from others.
Rambling?
I'm saying with men, sex leads to intimacy, and with women, intimacy leads to sex.
did anybody, lol, doubt that? isn't that like saying, "the sun also rises" or " men take partners hoping they'll never change" while women tale partners thinking "I can fix this guy" ? not jacking w you, jus curious...
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He speaks the truth. "Auto-" is prefix from greek which essentually can be translated to mean self. As in an automobile is self mobile.....like it don't need no mule to drag it about. I remember in a meeting one day, before things became formal, there was a faction complaining about that collegue we had being "homosexual". They were terribly confused when I told them I couldn't even imagine another guy that would put up with him, so he had to be "autosexual". They did agree it matched his personality.
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autonomous I get, what you guys are ragging on is j***g off...i still say "auto sexual" in curency of today's lexikon sounds like back seat weasels in a sleeping bag too hot they have to roll the windows down ....
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